Long distance relationship dating advice for women
It’s for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough…” “If ever there is tomorrow when we’re not together. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart…
Men DON’T usually share their feelings or sometimes are afraid to I guess.
So we play the “let’s read into everything he does” game.
Let’s see a tell-tale list of signs for women to know when he IS interested.
I, like most women, think we have guys figured out but are so wrong most of the time.
During the early days (the first couple of months, at least) don’t rush into vulnerability, set a pattern of talking for hours every day, or make serious commitments.
There are all sorts of things you can only learn about someone face to face, but the initial reason why it’s a good idea to meet in person ASAP is simple: You may have great chemistry on paper or over the phone, and absolutely none in person. Discuss some of your communication basics as a couple–how you generally prefer to connect (phone, Vo IP, text), what times, and for how long.
Also, Pew Internet (2002a) states that because of new technologies, college students will have greater social ties with their friends than their family members.
The biggest benefit of being in a LDR is that it forces you to communicate.
You may never again in the course of your relationship have this much focused time and energy to spend communicating with your partner. If you get to know them deeply and well, that will pay off big-time in the long run.
To regain perspective, she listed all the reasons they chose to live separately—their child’s education, her heavy work travel schedule, so her husband could better prepare for his upcoming deployment and more.
“Whenever we got tired of living apart, we reread the list and remembered that sometimes adults do hard things because it’s best for the family.” Write out the pros for the difficult choices you and your husband have made, so you have a reminder handy when you need it.